Autumnal Indian Delight

 Araneus diadematus

In the UK we are now being entertained by AutumnWatch.  A six week series broadcast by the BBC, following the arrival of autumn and its affect on nature, and I couldn’t resist mentioning this entertaining seasonal show or addressing an observation.  For me the show is as delightful as the Indian summer sunshine we've recently been enjoying.

Being a fan of these shows [Spring, Autumn, SnowWatch], I am intrigued by the reaction each show evokes on associated discussion boards hosted by Nature UK.  I too contribute to a few and appreciate the interaction between similarly minded people.  But a few reveal an unacceptable arrogance (perhaps ignorance) in their comments or opinion, which at times includes bruising & personal attack. Such behaviour is best left to wildlife, and shouldn't be as prevalent in a supposedly more intelligent species; mankind.

Pampas Grass Seed Heads

I can just hear my grandmother saying, they need their heeds knocking together or a good war to bring them to their senses.  In a way she had a point, when we're attacked on mass we pull together, respect and care more for each other.  During winter months different bird species stick together; to feed, roost or roam - flocking together for protection from predators among other reasons.  Even during the year, most creatures tolerate neighbours, so long as their lives aren't under threat.

Dark or Grey dagger moth caterpillar

Where we do occasionally meet bullying human behaviour, there are two important things we must be wary off.  Not responding in like manner, and if we must respond, counter it from a position of courtesy, they're entitled to have a different view, questionably expressed in the manner they choose.  Therefore it is important to answer them without direct personal counter-attack - proffer our view succinctly, in control, and let it be.

Reed Mace

It may be difficult to stop there, especially if encouraged to reply, but this is precisely what we must not do in many instances. Not only is it better for us to walk away and join better discussions, but our first polite reply will not be lost or deflected by ongoing argument - which seldom gains any ground in remote situations.  Often this first corrective action or response goes on working long after we've moved on, especially if the recipient has an active conscience (most have).

Some folks have been so hurt by people, they’ve little time for social interaction, and as a result devote more time to nature. Despite the comfort offered by wildlife in relation to this, it leaves a few vulnerable with detrimental reductions in social skill and sensitivity.  Besides, written comments are easily misinterpreted or misunderstood, especially being as we’re surrounded by an eclectic global population.  But if we truly care about nature and people, cut both more slack, then tolerance, understanding, balance and compassion will significantly increase.

Whatever the differences between the kingdom of mankind and the kingdoms of nature, none has greater emotional capacity than humanity.  Probably why we fall-out so easily, often with those closest, or regarding issues that challenge our own personalised and trusted opinion.

Pholcidae (Cellar Spider, Daddy-longlegs or Vibrating spiders) & spiderlings 

Wildlife of course takes no prisoners from time to time; Feisty Robins, Evasive Eels, Darting Dragonflies, Beastly Beetles, Hunting Harvestmen, Scrapping Spiders, Fighting Foxes, Swashbuckling Sticklebacks or Aggressive Swans. However, their behaviour is more often than not instinctive, territorial, protective and defensive. While ours is often driven by hurt, jealousy, envy, malice and pride; and always we're last to recognise it.

Agelenidae (Funnel weaver spiders): Tegenaria duellica – Giant House spider

Let’s continue to mature, appreciate what nature and people can teach us, and evolve into heartier statures of ourselves – we’ve all a way to grow, irrespective of age.

Ivy Fruiting

I'd like to know what your favourite post was during this first half-year.  What would you like more or less of, what works or doesn't?  Mine is still Meeting Prince William & Black Grouse from April as they're my rarest personal encounters.

It's been fun, despite the pressure at times, and opened up other possibilities & projects.  I hope posting twice a month at length is sufficient, certainly challenging enough, but let me know if you'd prefer less and more often.

Araneidae (Orbweavers): Araneus diadematus (Garden or Cross spider)

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